The weather was perfect--as it has been here in AZ--and the time there was *eaten* up
doing repairs--Debbie is damn good doing things-- many times Lou has directed her OVER the PHONE as how to do something--one being to hook up a hanging light fixture
But there were certain things that *dad* had to do---and our shopping was at LOWES/etc. ---not my speed of indulging myself in that mode of shopping but--ya gotta lend a hand when its needed--
And when we settled @ night thats when we talked away---its been over a year now that Deb hasnt been employed---most of the other department peoples have found jobs- but Deb (been told) TOO over-qualified---thus the pay that they offered wouldnt get her threw 1/2 of her Xpenses--
She was on the puter/has been on interviews/has done temp./and to keep herself from going off the deep end she volunteers @ the animal shelter and so forth~~~
She shares her friends happiness when they tell her they got a job but then she justs breaks down--
So I shall end by saying it was heartwarming to see her but yet very upsetting to see how she is trying so hard to hold herself together--
The old saying~~~
small kids---small issues
grown kids---bigger issues---
I dont know----I wonder why my kids have been bucking the tide all their lives---cant the waters just calm down ~~~~
Needless to add----I arrived @ AZ. in a very disturbed state of mind~~
I am not happy to be here/there/anywhere~~~~and of course Lou handles things differently than I do---*thats life* he says---I guess I didnt Xpect life to be like it has been----
And Kait is having troubles again---she cannot handle being in school so she is home---will be seeing Harter on Tuesday----
my luve to U all---I missed each and everyone-
Barbara
WAYNE-----I looked high and low---
--nada!!!OMA---thanks for missing me
Twinee---am sorry to read of your issues---
for everyone ---now I am going back to read more of the posts
I'm glad to see you back too, Barb!! I believe we all miss your posts terribly when you aren't able to get on.
