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Well everyone, it has been a very stressful few days (since Friday). I have been reading but didn't feel much like posting.

Trisha has cancelled the wedding and is leaving Craig - I am sick, absolutely SICK! She has no reason except that she is unhappy. Can't even explain THAT! I feel so bad for Bryce (grandson) and for Craig. Right now I am sooooooooooooo pissed at my daughter!!!!!!!!!! Not because of the money but because of the way she (isn't) handling things. No explanation! I just don't understand!!!!!!!

I've been crying for days and have just now been able to tell everyone without crying.

Oh well, what do ya say??????

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Post by annie oakley »

Aw Mars....I am so sorry about the wedding. Maybe she has just got cold feet and things will be ok soon. How is Craig taking all this. Don't beat your self up...it's not your fault. Love Oma
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Post by tex »

Wow! That IS bad news. I've heard of love making people do strange things, but that takes the cake. Poor Craig, (and everyone else).

Well, if she's going to have a change of heart, I suppose it's better to make the break before the wedding, than after. She's right, of course--weddings are supposed to be happy events, so if she's unhappy . . .

It's a shame she didn't realize that she was unhappy a lot sooner, of course. I assume that this hasn't helped your sleeping problem one bit.

Don't forget to take care of yourself.

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Post by starfire »

Oh Mars, I'm really sorry.

What else can I say. The others covered it pretty well.

My daughter has certainly disappointed me several times too. Can't believe she was raised in my house sometimes....her views are so different at times. However, we have to let them live their lives.........we can't do it for them, that's for sure. And no matter how angry or disappointed.........we still love them just as much.

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Post by MaggieRedwings »

Oh Mars!!

I am so unhappy to hear that everything has been called off but I do agree with Tex that it is better beforehand than after everything is over and done. My heart goes out to you and Craig and hope that everyone will be OK from this decision.

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Post by barbaranoela »

Margie----feeling the same way----

As much as it *hurts*,better now than later----and perhaps Trisha has megga thinking to do----and even though U wanna smack her---U have to give her this time to sort things out--

I am sure U and Trisha can sit and talk things over----
So very sorry for your *hurt*

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Post by celia »

Mars,

What a huge shock! I completely understand how you feel. At the same time, I imagine it must have taken Trisha a lot of courage to be honest about her feelings of unhappiness especially when she knew how upseting it would be for people. Maybe she needs a little space and time before she will be able to articulate her feelings more clearly. It is probably a big shock for her too on some level.

I'm so sorry you are having to deal with all this. Celia
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Oh No! Uffda! Take care...I am sooooo sorry things turned-out this way... :sad: JJ
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Post by Peggy »

Mars,

I'm so sorry to hear this news! But I have to agree with everyone so far, better now than later.

Please take care of you during this stressful time.

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Post by kate_ce1995 »

Oh Mars, how sad.

If she can;t explain it, and is just unhappy, I hope you are keeping an eye on her to makes sure she isn't suffering depression that is making her unhappy, Craig making her unhappy.

I do know that things happen for a reason, so what is meant to be will happen.

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Post by CAMary »

Mars-

So sorry to hear about the cancellation. Maybe once she is able to sort through it, your daughter will be better able to explain it to you...

It sounds bad for everyone involved - I will keep your family in my prayers!

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