sorry to bring it here but I need to vent.............
Talked to Trisha today - sent her a 5 page letter explaining relationships and love and told her she needs to figure out why she feels the way she does - quit running from her problems for her sake and Bryce's. Etc., etc. Anyways, she says she is coming to my house next weekend. Told her there were house rules, etc. because it is MY house.
After talking to her, I remembered that next weekend is our anniversary (28 years) on Saturday and Sunday is Mother's day...............Gggggggrrrrrrrr.........I give up! LOL
OK, I'm done!
Love,
Mars
ok, gotta vent............
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barbaranoela
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VENT-----VENT!!!!!!!
Well U could say that U FORGET that U and Daddy planned a weekend away to celebrate your SPECIAL DAY!!!
Or that the house is being *fumigated* due to BUGZ and nobody can stay in it for @ least the WHOLE weekend!!!
Lets see----what else---- ?????
Oh-----U came down with the bird flu epidemic and feeling
Been there
Margie done it!!!
Just dont feel GUILTY!!! I did for the longest time until my feelings were validated ~~~~~~
Its your life----and I know the grandkids always shed a new light on things!!
U come around once----make it good for U and Larry--
Just my opinion!!!!!
Take care--keep a smile
AND DO SOMETHING SPECIAL----
luve Barb
Well U could say that U FORGET that U and Daddy planned a weekend away to celebrate your SPECIAL DAY!!!
Or that the house is being *fumigated* due to BUGZ and nobody can stay in it for @ least the WHOLE weekend!!!
Lets see----what else---- ?????
Oh-----U came down with the bird flu epidemic and feeling
Been there
Margie done it!!!Just dont feel GUILTY!!! I did for the longest time until my feelings were validated ~~~~~~
Its your life----and I know the grandkids always shed a new light on things!!
U come around once----make it good for U and Larry--
Just my opinion!!!!!
Take care--keep a smile
AND DO SOMETHING SPECIAL----
luve Barb
the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self-control
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Liz
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Hi Mars
Perhaps she needs to talk to you about the reasons behind her descision to cancel the wedding. Has she not told you just why? Trisha must be a very unhappy, mixed up lady to go what she has done. Maybe she needs to talk to her Mum. It is better to make these sort of descisions before the wedding rather than after.
Good luck with getting to the bottom of things.
Love
Liz
Perhaps she needs to talk to you about the reasons behind her descision to cancel the wedding. Has she not told you just why? Trisha must be a very unhappy, mixed up lady to go what she has done. Maybe she needs to talk to her Mum. It is better to make these sort of descisions before the wedding rather than after.
Good luck with getting to the bottom of things.
Love
Liz
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Momster
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Hi Mars
Hi Mars:
Wishing you the best of luck. These things don't often happen at the most convenient times, do they?
I wish I could give you some words of wisdom, but I'm no expert. I'm a Mom who loves her children and that doesn't change when they grow up. All we can say is we've done the best we could and be there to listen to them and try to give what words of wisdom we can from our life experiences.
I hope your daughter can express to you what is bothering her - better it happened before the wedding and not after and maybe she can resolve what's going on with her.
All I try to do is keep an open mind and be of support when I can.
I also try to remember how precious each child was to me the day they were born and my hopes for their future. Then I try to draw on that when they need my help.
I've made many mistakes along the way and hope that I'm forgiven and then move on.
Best wishes with her and I hope she's at peace soon and you too.
Love - Momster
Wishing you the best of luck. These things don't often happen at the most convenient times, do they?
I wish I could give you some words of wisdom, but I'm no expert. I'm a Mom who loves her children and that doesn't change when they grow up. All we can say is we've done the best we could and be there to listen to them and try to give what words of wisdom we can from our life experiences.
I hope your daughter can express to you what is bothering her - better it happened before the wedding and not after and maybe she can resolve what's going on with her.
All I try to do is keep an open mind and be of support when I can.
I also try to remember how precious each child was to me the day they were born and my hopes for their future. Then I try to draw on that when they need my help.
I've made many mistakes along the way and hope that I'm forgiven and then move on.
Best wishes with her and I hope she's at peace soon and you too.
Love - Momster
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