Just wanted to blow off some steam - so here goes............
Nichole (eldest - mother of Jordan) received a letter from her MIL today. She is threatening to take her to court and take Jordan from her. She says she will turn Nichole in for being paid CASH at her job; that she is doing coke and dating a (insert bad "N" word here); parties all the time; etc. She says that she (Nichole) has known all along that Jordan had a heart condition and still continues to smoke and allow others to smoke around her - "how would the judge like to hear that???"
She says it is Nichole's fault that her son (Jordan's dad) is in prison - "what goes around - comes around" - you will get yours - see you in court - I'll take that daughter of yours..................blah, blah, blah. She is accusatory saying lots of things that just aren't true.
Nichole had called her to ask for financial assistance because she is a single mother struggling and for this "grandmother" (I say that nastily) to help by keeping her for a few days and she "couldn't" - didn't have time.
OK - I could go on but I'm done now. I get so mad at how people think that they can just come in and ruin a child's life over such bullshit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can NOT believe some people. And this is a woman who had 3 sons which have all been in prison. And she thinks SHE can raise Jordan better????????
I haven't decided whether I should leave this one alone or if I should respond with a letter to her myself!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm screaming now!!!!!!!!!!!!! Actually, I'm rambling......did you all make sense of any of this!?
OK - done now..............just wanted to complain for awhile......... Thanks for listening!
Love,
Mars
puh-leez!! I think she is angry and lashing out in desperation. I don't think you need to DO anything, as it is all groundless crap...I will keep your family in my prayers - and hope the spiteful, racist witch leaves you all alone!