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annie oakley · Post by **annie oakley** » Sat Nov 25, 2006 5:48 pm

I should sound strange or upset, it's because I am (at hubby) don't worry. I am working thru something. If things do not improve I may find a new residence. If they improve and we get somewhere, I will stay. I may dissappear from the board afew days at a time. Depends on how things get. Very depressed right now and need to get away (can't right now) but may try in a couple months.
I will try and keep in touch every dya but may as I say be absent some. Love you all alot Oma

starfire · Post by **starfire** » Sat Nov 25, 2006 6:54 pm

Dearest Oma,
I will be praying you and your husband will be able to work things out and all will be well, but if not, then that you will be happy and whatever decisions you make will be the best possible.

Know that I will be thinking of you.

Love, Shirley

JJ · Post by JJ » Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:06 pm

Thinking of you Oma...hope you can work out the problems...take care and good luck...Love...JJ

Post by **tex** » Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:23 pm

Aw, Oma,

I'm so sorry things aren't going right. I wondered why you've been absent from the board so much lately. I hope that everything will work out the way you want it to.

Love,
Tex

hazel · Post by **hazel** » Sat Nov 25, 2006 10:10 pm

Well, I am flabbergasted. I'm so sorry to hear things are not so good. I hope they work out soon.

Maybe

not hitting the truck was a sign that when things look like they might be bad they are just a little nose print on the window.

Polly · Post by **Polly** » Sat Nov 25, 2006 10:13 pm

Oma,

You have excellent intuition - I know it will help you to figure out the best course. Am thinking of you and love you a lot, too.

Keep in touch as frequently as you can so that we know you are OK.

Love and a :bigbighug:

Polly

Carol Arnett · Post by **Carol Arnett** » Sun Nov 26, 2006 10:34 am

Hi Oma,
I am so sorry to hear that things are not going well. I will be praying for you that things wil work out as they should. Love, Carol

annie oakley · Post by **annie oakley** » Sun Nov 26, 2006 2:08 pm

Well, I made him drive to San Angeleo with me today to buy Groceries. And I said we are going to talk and try to settle a few things, or one of us is leaving. Marriage is also a partnership and My partner is slacking. So we got talks started. It won't all change right away, but at least we are talking now. I accepted spme blame as well....so hopefully things will improve. 16 yrs is too long to give up. Thanks for prayers and good wishes, we always need those. Love Oma

Liz · Post by **Liz** » Sun Nov 26, 2006 2:44 pm

Just keep talking Oma. As you say 16 years is a long time to have to turn your back on. Hope you both can work things out successfully.

Love

Liz

JJ · Post by JJ » Sun Nov 26, 2006 4:58 pm

That's a start...hang in there kiddo..Love, JJ

Post by **tex** » Sun Nov 26, 2006 8:11 pm

You're on the right tract. Talking is the key, and listening is just as important. If you're both willing to talk, and listen to each other, you'll work it out.

Love,
Tex

Mars · Post by **Mars** » Sun Nov 26, 2006 9:24 pm

Thinking of you and Mike, Oma.

16 years is a long time. We tend to settle into various habits that continue unless we communicate. Sometimes that is a problem too. Good for you that you started the conversations. Good luck.

Love,
Mars

annie oakley · Post by **annie oakley** » Mon Nov 27, 2006 8:05 pm

I am trying, but he's not listening agan and I could scrream. Love Oma

JJ · Post by JJ » Mon Nov 27, 2006 11:28 pm

Grrrrrrrrrr...keep trying Oma....JJ

MaggieRedwings · Post by **MaggieRedwings** » Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:54 am

Hi Oma,

My prayers are with you in this difficult time and I really do understand exactly how you feel. With time and conversation, things will get better.

Love, Maggie