U all have read about how Louie and I--his cousin Dan and Noreen---bought a 2 family house (in 62)--and for 5 years we had our kids and watch them become so close---
We then were able to buy our own places---D and N in New Jersey--L and I here in New City---during the years Dan lost Noreen and 2 of his daughters killed in accidents---
To cut it short all the kids kept there friendships--
My Debbie and Dan's Diane became more like sisters---50 years of age and they still share their sad times--happy times--closer than close--
Well because Diane and her * companion* will be celebrating their 50th birthdays the same day in March---they decided on a big family party!!! BUT Diane does NOT want KAIT there because of Kait's issues and the fact that she doesnt want the party *RUINED*--ruin a friggen birthday party--if one of Di's nephews or her own kids had an issue would they be Xcluded!!! and I think of Lynn who has suffered to see what Kait has been thru--to HEAR why they wont be invited!!!
This is unbelievable and I know if this be the case --there is going to be a very sad ---dis-connection between Di and me---
Can U imagine how Lynn will feel --how Kait will feel---and how afraid I am that we will have a big dispute with my daughter Deb---cus of her ties to Di.--
Kait is as normal as can be-----she doesnt *drool* @ the mouth---she is just a sweet lovable person who wants so much to be with people--and be accepted as she is-----her mouth does *runneth over*
but she is ALIVE!!!Imagine Kait will be 20 years old comes March also----I might ask Di to include Kait in celebrating her birthday with Di and her companion---
RIGHT!!!!!!
I quit----I am so furious
luve Barbara
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And I would think, that Diane, as a person leading an "alternative lifestyle" would be more sensitive and inclusive to those around her. She *must* understand how it feels to be excluded/rejected. I'm really shocked by the insensitivity!
