My SIL is/was Jewish---IT GETS BETTER--
Her mom and dad were very STRICT Practicing Jews---BUT SIL did everything to drive them crazy--like DATING CATHOLICS or as they called us *SHITZKERS*--decorating the outdoor shrub as a Christmas Tree--even bought a manger and set that out---so U get the picture--
She met Robert---NO WAY said her mom and dad--CATHOLICS!! OY VEY!!
Well me--my mom and Louie along with Robert had to go to SIL's home to speak up for Robert,as a good person even tho he is a CATHOLIC-
Then is when I should have told her where to go--
OK---SIL---then converts to being a Catholic--NOT TELLING her parents--
Louie and I baptized her and became her god parents
One day she tells me---*dont tell anyone that I am jewish--
*well said I---when U are asked your maiden name and say GOLDBERG do U think --*oh U are IRISH*
Well she tells her mom( and only her) cus there is to be a church wedding-- and after that we went to the Catering place and they went thru a *mock* service of being wedded in the Jewish tradition--
Louie walked her down the aisle for the Church wedding
and U had to see him shuffeling papers to the Cantor--who knew this was a *fake service--just to please SIL;s relatives and specially her Grandma BESSIE cus she had the megga $$$$$---isnt this sick!!! and SIL didnt want Granny BESSIE to disown her---At this service --Doug who was ring bearer @ the Catholic service is now starting down another aisle and then says outloud* Mommy--they already got married* and I quickly slammed my hand cross his mouth and gave him a *shove* to keep moving--
And the years rolled by---@ the age of 14--I think- my idiot nephew says--*I am half JEWISH!! OMG* I said Michael so what!!
He didnt want any of his friends to know--
and blah blah blah~~~~
After many years SIL told me that her mom and dad hated me--Louie and my mom!
cus every year they would spend a week visiting SIL and Robert YET always walk pass my house and never stop to talk with us--I brought this up to SIL and thats when she told me of their dislike and my poor *mom* was never asked over when they visited--
AGAIN---stupid me--just looked *DUH* --and I would even have them over --double DUH--
Well I finally realized that SIL is just like her mom--2 bitches--
There is so many more things that happened--that would *knock ya socks off* but it would take *YES--a book to tell it all!!!
And one day --my brother had a horrific diabetic reaction to the point of being very dangerous (which I never knew that could happen cus I had seen him have others and some sugar or juice would *snap* him outta it-
My point in saying this is---U know when someone gets *tipsey* thats when they say the *TRUTH* about someone
Well this happened with Robert-while having this wicked reaction--
He was saying things that made me wanna cry and the best was to SIL--while he is throwing things off the table--*and U bitch--U never cook a meal for me* SHE looked @ me and I
@ her cus I knew Robert wasnt gettin proper balanced meals--And U know a diabetic has to be very careful with eating---etc.When he came outta the reaction and saw me--(not remembering what had occured) he simply said---*hey Barb-whatta U doing here?*--and I just added--*to try and help*---and then he realized what had gone on--
Well, she was such a miserable person--that my friends couldnt stand her but how they all luved Robert--and thru this they were always in vited to functions---and thats when I would grab Robert and dance the night away---Louie--wasnt a dancer---he did the finger tapping beat on the table--
And to end---this is the
that has made me so unhappy--with things she has said to me since Robert passed---If U read all this----thank U--
If U didnt--thats *ok* too
luve Barbara
I have to add this---she didnt want to give birth to any girls cus she luved boy baby's ??? so when her first child LISA came into our world she was so very UNHAPPY--and as Lisa grew she felt it--but when Lisa got married SIL was SO PROUD cus JIMMY comes from a family with $$$$
And her MICHAEL---the second coming of the Messiah-arrived she was beaming and this kid got all the attention--thats why today is he a total idiot--divorced---but still living with wife and 2 kids--on internet dating women from out town--and his kids are Xposed to this life---
cus if I used the words that I would luve to--it would be disrespectful to all of U here
This is the saddest of all--well one of the saddest---my mom died 3 weeks before Lisa (her grandaughter) Roberts and SIL first born )got married--in October of 1999---and SIL's mom never Xtended sympathies to us--- Going to a happy time--after losing my mom--was hard enuf but SIL's mom never acknowledging our sadness hurt the most--
