1st new thing about my dad

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1st new thing about my dad

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How very sad that it took me all this time to UNDERSTAND the pictire I have of my dad --in uniform-with a group of men--standing @ attention--
And how sad that my mom could never Xplain to me that Dec.7th wasnt his call to fight for our country--
Under Roosevelt there was a Federal progran called Civilian Conserative Corps which men of poor familes---jobless etc. volunteered for to work there *buns* off putting up telephone lines--power lines--tree planting--fire roads and a zillion other things--
They lived in barracks --worked long hours--got paid and got some time off--
I dont know which state he worked in----but the picture I have --he surely looks so handsome and dedicated to his job---protecting our country in this manner--and on back of this picture my mom had scribbled words here and there but one phrase always made me cry--it was *god give me strength*
Knowing my mom---she no doubt was either not-totally informed as to their duties or else --once again saying--she was to embarrassed to tell me --in later years--about the picture--
No doubt embarrassed cus all my uncles fought in WW2--
How sad that she wouldnt have seen me be PROUD of what my dad did for his country!!!
I feel like I have just been born and am learning about my dad--being from the big city and mom--living in Mass.--who @ the age of 16 had to go to NYC--get a job and send $$$ home to help her mom and dad and all sisters and brothers that needed help---
I feel like a *no-where-person~~~
Speak with my surviving aunt--several times and she cant shed any info concerning my mom and dad--
Well time to call her now --being I have some info--perhaps she can shed a little bit of light---
thanks---whoever read this

Barbara---feeling like the lonesome :flyingdoveleft:

PS. spoke to my aunt---and she did understand what my dad did before owning a bakery---which went *kaboom* cause my mom--was giving the *nuns* the fresh baked stuff instead of the day old stuff--- :lol: :lol: --
and I found out that my mom--worked as a housekeeper for Aunt Rose--my Babci's sister---and that most of the times ,the family that rented us an apartment---would watch me---and I remember Mrs. Taglianetti--cus she was so very very happy when I was with her---BUT there were times when my mom had to leave me with a neighbor cross the street and I gather thats the one who *wacked me* around----
My Aunt Joan filled that part in---
So she and I had some laughs--but she did want to know *why* am I *searching*---I answered *cus I want to place myself and mommy never told me about her life--never a mom and daughter chat!!!
OH---and I found out my mom's birth name was Mary--not Marion~~~

By golly, I might find out about my life in bits and pieces--and hopefully the *best* of the pieces~~~~~~~

Barbara
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Post by mini »

Hi Barbara

Thank you for sharing that story with us, I could picture the photo you have in my mind and felt your feelings while looking at that photo. Wish you luck in finding out more information and hope to hear what information you find out. :flowersmiley:
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Yes, you should be very proud of your Dad and I'm glad you are. Your Mom is a hero (heroine) also because she did what she could for her family. I hope you will continue to find out all the things you want to know.

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Post by Dee »

I'm right beside you, if you feel the need to acquire the information about your Dad, Mom & things you didn't then and don't knoiw now.
Getting bits and pieces unti they all fit may be very theraputic for you..

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Post by Kellyerin222 »

Hello Barb,

Being new I was a little unclear that you did not know your Mom and Dad, but I am glad that you are finding out information about them. I do not know my father. My mother was very young when she got pregnant and from what I hear my grandfather spoke with him on the phone (knowing him probably scared him half to death) and next thing my Mom knows he left--- before he even knew she was pregnant. My mother will not speak of him, I only know his first name (which is a common name and there are thousands in the US with this same name). I have looked in the mirror before and tried to analyze which parts of me do not look like my mother and what I have acquired from my father. In my early twenties I paid money and tried contacting one of those "find people" places, but nothing came out of it and I do not feel I will ever know anything about my father.

I am glad you are proud of your Dad and Mom, and that is the way it should be. From the sounds of it they were respectable and did what they could. I wish you the best of luck with finding all the information!

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