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U all remember when Harter decided that KAIT didnt need a shunt- BUT-after the plastic surgery, he was going to KEEP KAIT --in the hospital for 2/3 days WITH an EXTERNAL SHUNT to MONITOR PRESSURE--BUT HE DIDNT----and they came home --here--and in a few hours she was screaming in pain and vomiting---and it was ASAP to the ER---

Well Lynn and Kait are @ UTAH for another HYDROCEPHALUS convention--to continue to learn more---and which she said *is listening* to the same things---but I said to Lynn---*to U it is but to those parents who are new @ this are learning--
Lynn was very very down---Kait is having a ball cus she is with her OWN KIND---U all understand what I mean!!!!

LYNN went to one of the neuros--without mentioning U know whose NAME-and asked *when does one know if your child can be without a shunt??
NEURO replies--*well the NEURO in charge has a consultation with staff neuros and then they INSERT AN EXTERNAL SHUNT AND WATCH THE MONITOR FOR SEVERAL DAYS and that TELLS THEM YES/NO-----and we all know that Harter DIDNT do what he said he would do---
For the FIRST time LYNN said to me *mom he made a very big mistake* and I replies* Lynn--yes--he made a HUGH mistake--and it appeared that I was the only one to REALIZE it and everybody *fluffed* me off--
Its over and done--so Lynn lets not go there cus U know how I feel about Harter---and all the neuros that worked on her did the same shi*!!!!!!stuck the shunt over every part of her body with NO furthering *wellness*
The neuros also replied that kids like Kait--get along better with OLDER peoples and young children!!
There was more but I think I coverd most --other than Louis got pissed off with me when he heard what I answered back to LYNN---YES--he made a very big mistake****

So today hasnt been the best ---I went around slamming anything that I could and just :cry: and yes---my life is an open book--U are all my family---friends---that I can open up to--L isnt talking to me ~~~due to the talk and *how* I answered Lynn----TRUTH BE TOLD!!!!

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Hi Twinnie. I can understand how angry you must feel. Wouldn't you like to :mallet: :hammerhead: him as hard as you could. To think that this man is let loose on defenceless people who go to him to be helped only to finish up worse of than before.

Don't know what else to say to you.

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Twinnee-----and all my doc.s tell me *barbara U MUST learn to unstress ya self!!!

Well thanks---I know that but how does one do that when every freakin news about Kait----stinks--

Thanks for the *HUGS*---can use them


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Barbara,

I understand how you must feel. It's so frustrating when you know you're right, and no one will believe you. Then when everyone finally figures out that you were right, you go through all the feelings of frustration again.

I don't understand why Mr. L is so upset - you didn't say anything that wasn't true, and it sounds like you were just being yourself. What Harter did was enough to make anyone see red.

I hope you two are back on speaking terms, by now, and if not, I certainly hope you will be, soon.

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Galahad---cus he believes that Harter didnt do any damage to Kait????

Lynn looks @ her daughter and wonders *why*~~~~~

Kait is 20 years young---and hasnt had the fun of growing up--running around with friends---or EVEN having a friend---sits in her room :sad:

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Post by hazel »

Well the good thing you said is that Kait is enjoying the conference. Lynn is terrific to keep on trying, and you are terrific to keep on supporting her. It is just a shame she's (Kait) had so much pain in her life, but she's had a lot of love too, Grandma!
Hang in there! :bigbighug:
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thanks Kathy--I am trying very hard to calm myself down---and I do appreciate your caring too----

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I am so sorry that your family is dealing with yet another Medical Deity with no brains....sending good thoughts and hugs your way...

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Barb>>>>>I need to come visit you one of these days and I will show you some thin gs to make Doctor Harter totall scared to death of you. I could just see you and me tooling around New York, Mr L would need to flowwow close and keep us out of trouble. God Love Ya Barb, I do. Love Ya Oma
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Awwwwww! Barb!!!
I am once again so sorry to read this about Kait..
I know all too well what it's like being a Mother & Grandmother and going into what I call my protective mode.
Due to the seriousness of Kait's issues I can truly understand your stress & frustration.
I pray for Kait every night in hopes of a miracle so she can, at her young age, start to enjoy a life that she so deserves...

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Post by sunny »

No wonder you are so upset!! This is unbelievable and I am sooo very sorry that your family is having to deal with this. Wish I could make it better.....
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