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OK - feeling a bit better today....

Post by starfire »

Everyone,

Thanks so much for all the welcome back messages. I did miss all of you a lot.

Since the trip wasn't really a vacation, I don't have a lot of "fun" to report.
My Mom recently purchased a place in the same community that we are in because she is at the point where she needs some "help" and "extra attention". Her place is is a very short walk from ours. I can ALMOST see it from my front windows.

Anyway, We were both there to let her get familiar with what will soon be her new permanent home, and to get as much done as possible before she actually moves in (Oct). She seems to like it a lot and is thrilled that I will be close by.

I did some minor repair, a LOT of painting, cleaning, throwing out, etc. I am still suffering the consequences of all that exertion. I occasionally tend to forget that I'm not 40 (or even 50) anymore. I have a cronic problem with my right knee that has been letting me know that it really didn't appreciate all the activity and I had forgotten to take my brace which controls any side motion of the knee. It does help but it very ugly so I tend to "forget it" until it's really acting up.

I will be in Florida most of the year after the first part of October. There will be about a month of "no net service" again until Bill joins me in November. He can't quite see himself giving up Northern PA at this point so he plans to continue to return for a few months in the summer but I won't be able to spend that much time here due to Mom. I can't haul her back and forth either (or won't) because she has a couple of health problems that require regular doctor visits and I don't want her to have to deal with 2 sets of doctors. I can bring her up for maybe a month though, if she feels up to traveling.

Well, I am rambling.............sorry.

Tex,
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Post by Sally »

Hi, Shirley,

I understand about coping with an elderly parent when we're not feeling quite up to snuff ourselves. I hope that you find ways to nurture yourself.

Your plans sound quite complicated and I am not going to stop and figure them out! :grin: I will say that at those times when you are "incommunicado" I will miss you.

I hope that you will stay in touch as much as you can.

Lots of love,

Sally

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Post by Peggy »

Well I can certainly relate with overdoing it. I think it's a trait I inherited from Mom. This weekend I'm taking lots of breaks and just doing what I can do. My body told after dinner was done last night that SO was I...I actually listened to it.

Hope you feel better toot-sweet Shirley.

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Post by harvest_table »

Hi Shirley,

I was not sure why you were taking the Florida trip- now I understand it was no "vacation". Sounds like lots of work and now hopefully you can rest and relax now that your back in PA. It's great you found a place so close to you and I'm glad your Moms looking forward to the move.

I think you have a wonderfull living situation- winters in Florida and summers in PA. Tranistioning is unsettling but it can't get much better than that! In my opionion. LOL

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Post by annie oakley »

Bless your heart. Don't overdue too much any more. Get some rest. Love Oma
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Post by Mars »

I hope you take some time for yourself between now and October. Take care of that knee too.

So glad you're back Shirley - I "Shirley" missed you! LOL
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