Hi there! thanks for answering, I wondered where you were. You have to stop working so hard! 
Is there any way I can help? I don't even know how to start. You'd be surprized where innocent questions can lead. . .
I was bored the other day, so emailed the manufacturer of the soy milk I drink, to ask why it didn't make me sick, when all others do. He wrote a really nice, really funny letter back; I followed up with a day of research on the internet, and VOILA! I found out I have sulfite sensitivity!
Who would have guessed? 
I didn't even know what sulfites were, and what they were in. And I was able to share it with Katy, and now she knows she is, too. The whole story just gets better and better. 
Anyway, when you're able to sit again without
pain, write back. Nice to hear from you. . .