OK--NEWS about Kaits visit to DR.-in NY

[barbaranoela]

Most of U read the issues of this DR> in New Hampshire--who WAS going to give Kait a 30 day trial with this Occipital procedure to help with her pain- and then over to MAINE where another neuro would do the implanting!!!! NH--doc was just the ok man--not the implanting neuro--
which really (being nice) ticked me off---
U have a family travel to NH--for CONSULT and then say its off to MAINE!!! Gimme a break!!

SOOOO today Louie took Lynn and Kait to Long Island--bout an hour from us--to see another neuro who does this----and!!!!!!! this guy does everything--
READY for this one---
He told Lynn--30 day trail period?? by god this could cause a serious infection--a week is enuf time to give us results --
And---NO WAY--where the NH nerd said it would be placed---due to all the hardware she already has in her head---including her shunt--
He told Lynn---the wiring for the implant will have to go (under skin) along side of head--up along the forehead and then connected !!!! This got me sick to think they have to run wiring just where they tried to build up the side of her head!!!
I hope this is the right road to take!!!!
Naturally--twas a very bad day for me---including the fact that Kait was so rude and ignored me and Gramps--sorted patted her and said *lets go honey*
This is XACTLY what Austins's mom told LYNN---Kait 's rudeness has gotten outta hand and she uses the xcuse of her *issues*-and thus gets away with it all!!!!---


--So--this will start in a few weeks-
Thats it--again!!


Barbara

[starfire]

Barbara, my heart hurts for you too..........

Love, Shirley

[barbaranoela]

Thanks Shirley------I hate to sound like a rotten grams but as I said---we have being doing Kait a grave injustice by not correcting her when she acts like a snot~~~

Didnt have time to *sound off* today cus they left here so fast and when they got back Kait was crabbing---so Lynn rolled her eyeballs and they left!!

Thanks *on the good ship lollipop*
luve Barbara

[JLH]

Mine as well. I'm sorry you all have to go through all this bad stuff. I hope the outcome will make it all worthwhile.

We can see what a loving grandmother and mother you are.

LOVE,

[barbaranoela]

and thank U also Joan---I was feeling badly that all U new friends would think poorly of me---

Luve Barbara

[JJ]

I will never think badly of you dear friend! Love, JJ

[JLH]

NO, WAY. We can see the love.

BTW, I think it was fantastic to get Austin's Mother's opinion on the situation.

[Gloria]

Barbara,
You needn't worry about what we think. You're family and we know that your heart is in the right place. You've never expressed anything but love and concern for Kait.

Gloria

[MaggieRedwings]

Morning Barbara,

Believe me when I say that your role as grams is to sit her down and have a long HARD chat with her and set her straight. She is heading for nothing but grief from the world with her attitude. You are a great grammy and we all love you.

Love, Maggie

[angy]

barbara stop blaming yourself...kait needs to grow up and show some respect...sorry if thats harsh... try doing less for her and see if that makes a difference...

[Polly]

Hi Sis,

Just thinkin' boutcha and sending some hugs and PEACE.






Love, Sispolly